Okay, so it is not so easy reinventing yourself. I am gaining the power to say NO! It seems that when I do not say no, is when things don't go exactly right. We should all pay attention to that little inner voice that says, "Don't do this! Say NO!" Instead, being the nice person that I am, I always say yes then can't believe I did. So now, I have to practice saying no, no, no, no, no, no, no and then eventually NO! if someone isn't listening.